
Thursday, Jan. 6, 2011, 12:14 a.m.: quick note before we crash – We’ve been up for something like 30 hours and altho we feel pretty chipper now I suspect tomorrow will be a different story. The short version is that we had a terrific time and I was even more impressed with Beijing and Shanghai than I expected, and I expected plenty.
Lingling and Ouwen flew to Beijing a few days before I arrived in Beijing on Dec. 26, 2010. We then spent 5 days together in Beijing and took the overnight train to Shanghai where we spent another 5 days. The best part was meeting and spending a lot of time with Lingling’s Mom in Beijing (we stayed at her flat) and her aunt, uncle (aunt’s husband), Little Uncle (mother’s youngest brother), and cousin’s family (husband, wife, and incredibly cute little 4-year-old ham – she’s clearly headed for the stage).


Lingling grew up on Huaihai Lu (Road), the heart of the French Concession southwest of the Bund, in one of the typical row houses on an alley in the interior of a block. Our last evening, her aunt and uncles treated us to a table-full of exotic eats, including the best stinky tofu I’ve had yet (I actually had seconds and thirds!), and a bowl-full of absolutely delectable spring rolls her little uncle had spent 4 hours that afternoon making in my honor. I was really touched by all the attention and how warmly I was welcomed by all her relatives.
We took several thousand pictures (as usual). As it happened, my hours of trying to learn Mandarin paid off – I was actually able to speak whole coherent sentences to anyone who would listen, and they appeared to understand me. As the days went on, I was more and more able to read the signage in Chinese characters. I’m sure my efforts were of great amusement to my victims, but they truly seemed to appreciate the effort. I had to repeat several phrases over and over, especially at dinner at someone’s house or in a restaurant: “hen hao” (very good), “wo xihuan” (I like it!), and “xiexie” (thank you!).
For tonight, zai jian and wan an! (adios and good night, literally “again see” and “evening peace”).